We love these wedding planning tips on how to select your dream wedding venue shared by Stonegate Manor in Benton Harbor Michigan!
One of the biggest pieces of the puzzle in wedding planning is the venue. It’s the first order of business for most couples right after they get engaged. There are truly so many to look at and elements you may want to think about.
Do you want to get married somewhere with outside ceremony locations? Or inside at a banquet hall? Are the surroundings of the venue important to you? Do you want to get married in the state you live in or go for a destination wedding? And with all these questions you become overwhelmed with decisions.
Some couples have been on the hunt for months, while some have just started looking for a venue. So, whether you are still trying to find “the one” or you are just now diving into the search, let’s look
Number of Guests
This is one of the most important factors to
Budget is sometimes treated like a dirty word when it comes to wedding planning, but it is absolutely crucial. It is so easy to lose sight of what you can do versus what you want to do. There are tons of useful online budget templates, and I also just found out by one of my brides that Google Docs has a great budgeting tool to use ? If you prefer to use your own budgeting methods, I suggest breaking down your wedding into categories, then prioritize and allocate funds to the things that mean the most to you and your partner. From there it is much easier to look at venues going forward since you have a better idea of the direction to move in. And better yet, if you are considering hiring a planner they can help you put a budget in place and keep you within the budget you have set.
What is your vision for your wedding?
Like I mentioned in the previous blogs, some couples will drive themselves into the ground looking at all the Pinterest boards in the world and staying up until 2am searching on Instagram for wedding looks or themes. Talk with your partner and think about what you want out of your wedding. Do you want a romantic destination wedding? A boho chic outdoor wedding? Find what elements best suit you and your partner and run with them. After all it is about the both of you. One of the most frequent feedbacks we get at Stonegate Manor is that couples love that our venue can adapt to any type of theme or feel- it’s like like a blank canvas to their dream wedding! Finding a venue that compliments your vision is important.
Keep in mind, so-called “housekeeping” accommodations. For example, as mentioned previously, does the venue offer in-house catering? If not, do they have a list of vendors they have worked with? Are tables and chairs included in the rental of the venue? What about bar services; do you need to hire a bartending company? Or do they have an exclusive vendor? Do they have areas for your wedding party and family members to get ready before the ceremony? Can you stay overnight? And don’t forget the extras… do they offer event planning or coordination or even décor that can be used or rented? These are some of the most common things couples ask here at Stonegate. The beautiful thing about the internet and some of the great wedding planning tools is that they have made platforms that venues can use to easily display most of this information. But, it also is good to create a list of questions in advance of visiting a venue.
Consider in advance anything else you are looking for in a venue. Are you looking to make your furry friend a part of your day? If so, is the venue pet friendly? Do they have transportation accommodations to pick guests up at the hotel? And the most important thing of all, ask yourselves “Can I see us getting married here?” Choose somewhere that best represents you as a couple and feels genuine to both of you.
Thanks so much for sharing this incredible advice on picking theist wedding venue for your wedding, wherever it might be!
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